Relationships, awwwwww relationships funny things I think, The older I get the more convinced I am that mankind was never supposed to live a life of monogamy and Love and honor and whatever it is we like to tag to it. We really are animals and deep down inside, we want to fulfill our desires, eat till our stomachs are full and lie down somewhere warm.
The thing about Relationships is it’s never a balanced scale, horrible yes I know my mother used to say it’s better to be loved than to love someone, the fact is both persons never truly love each other at the same time in the same way, life doesn’t work like that I assure you. So when relationships end most times you have one person who moves on happily, super excited to start fucking other people and one person is left completely devastated in a state of shock almost not having a clue how they wound up in that position.
A lot of persons are able to remain friends with their ex’s, I lift my hats to you (If I was wearing a hat), if I had the money I would hold a ceremony in your honor. I don’t believe in remaining friends with your ex, for two main reasons:
1 – If you hurt the person why would you want to befriend them after you hurt them?
2 – If the person hurt you why would you want to be friends with that person?
When someone says to you “Hey our Relationship didn’t work out but let’s be friends, look them in the eyes and say “Fuck You” and don’t ever look back even if you’re really curious. Don’t let anyone talk you into being friends with your ex unless you really want to, and that’s something you dont have a problem with but otherwise dont have someone who really hurt you convince you, you’d be better as friends.
I believe if you were better as friends you would have been friends not lovers.
Your ex’s should become strangers just forget them, you dont have to go to a party and hail them, and you certainly don’t need to remain friends with your ex’s friends
xoxoxox Lauren, Keep those responses LOUD- FUCK YOU