YOOOOOOO!!! How is everybody? I just got back from a Bomb ASS Birthday in Miami shout out to all my friends who made it possible you know yourselves. Believe me I had an amazing birthday.
But I want to talk to you guys about something that is really important to me, Small Mindedness. I think Small Mindedness is a dangerous thing and a lot of people suffer from Small minded conversations and trivial things. This is the problem when people see other people with things that they themselves would want, but don’t have it they try to come up with their own reasons why the person has it. And they usually come up with underserving reasons, as a solution to why they don’t have it they try to justify why the person doesn’t deserve it.
I can’t understand why though, Why is it that when you see a girl looking nice all the time and living her life and being happy, you have to smash talk her? Even if what you say is true or not true, why can’t you do what you do and be on your grind. Men hate on other men when they see him with a nice car, and a nice girl saying shit like: “Yea I fucked his girl” you know you aint even met his girl. Girls talk smack about girls who they assume is living the fabulous life, talking all kinds of shit like “Yea she fucked for everything she has” But all girls have a vagina so either you’re going to fuck for yours too or work for it if you want it and stop bitching about what another girl has.
Im not saying jealousy is a bad thing, Jealousy can really stimulate you to push and work harder. I envy women like Portia Simpson Miller first female Prime Minister and one of the most influential people in the world. Im jealous of my Aunt she just got her Masters and is working on her PHD, she’s on her hustle always on the grind. Im jealous of Kim Kardashian on her Russel Simmons shit all day.
Only small minded people hate and be envious over stupid small things, you’re jealous because some chic is posting pictures wearing Red Bottoms? You’re mad because she’s always dressed up looking pretty at a party? Bitch that’s trivial shit, that’s stupid superficial shit. Don’t hate someone else for making the most out of their life and taking advantage of their own opportunities, you’re wasting time being jealous and gossiping with your friends, where is that putting you.
I know people say having haters are important and it means your doing something right. However if you have small minded haters who hate on you for superficial shit, I honestly think you should be insulted. Get yourself some 1st world haters, get some Kim K Haters because that’s when you know, you’re really on your grind. I don’t want small minded haters and I know you don’t want them either, on top of that you don’t want to be considered a small minded hater. When you find yourself talking smack about another girls clothes or her bag, or if you’re a dude don’t be mad cuz dude next door just started driving a drop top benz it doesn’t mean he’s sleeping with a rich cougar.
Here’s what I have to say in closing, the grass isn’t always greener on the other side, you just have to do what’s best for you and go after your own happiness. Stop letting other peoples lifestyle influence your life and your happiness, the heaviest burden you can carry is a grudge. Let go of all the grudges, let go of all the hate, let go. Start fresh tell yourself for 2013, I’m gonna be on my Russell Simmons, if you have a twitter account go on it and tweet me @LaurenOLauren and say: “Yo Im gonna be on my Russell Simmons Grind”
“There is neither Jew nor Greek, Slave nor Free, Male nor Female, for you are all one in Christ Jesus” ~ Galatians 3:8
Xoxoxo Lauren O Lauren