It’s that season again, where you feel warm towards everybody even those people you hate. I love Christmas is such a beautiful season, however I want you to pay special attention to the gift he gives you for christmas. It doesn’t matter if you celebrate Christmas or you told him, don’t get you anything if Beyonce can buy Jay Z a five million dollar watch and Seal can give his wife an island (while they were married that it) then you’re boyfriend/ Fuck buddy/ Girlfriend/ boy who likes you/ Girl who likes you, should get you a gift.
I used those famous references not because of the value of the gifts, but because those people have all the money and everything ever made in the world. They really don’t need anything yet their significant other went above and beyond to get them something special. It’s always about the thought, never about the gift, yeah Jay Z has lots of watches that value four million but he doesn’t have any that cost five million so Beyonce thought let’s get him one?
Giving someone a gift says several things, the first thing it says is “I thought about you” and depending on the type of gift it can also say “I pay attention to things you say and do”
Guys/girls who ask you what you want for christmas especially when you’re in a relationship are lazy people. I would never ask somebody what they want for Christmas it’s exciting for me to figure out what the person likes and what they would want. I’m excellent at gift giving, it’s like an activity to me I get so happy when they open it and then their pupils dilate and that big grin spreads across their face like an epidemic in Africa.The whole thing Makes you feel good making someone else feel good, and sometimes depending on the circumstances it makes you feel better when you make someone else feel bad. But this isn’t about making anyone feel bad lol.
I also urge you all to forgive those who trespass against you, let go of grudges and hate because it takes up a lot of time, believe me I know you can’t concentrate on anything practical all you do is sit and get upset over and over again. Lend yourself to someone else’s happiness, do something good everyday, I dare you smile at somebody you don’t know, hold the door for an ungrateful person, and compliment someone on their outfit. We live in one world and sometimes you’d be so surprised to see how small this world is, the good things we do will eventually come back around.
Have an amazing Day everyone, I love you loads.
xoxoxoxoxo Lauren O Lauren